Handling team conflict before it spreads

Two people not speaking is a problem. Three people picking sides is a crisis.

Get to it the same day

Conflict left to 'cool off' on its own almost never does. Same-day, short, in-person beats next-week, long, by email every time.

Hear both sides separately first

Five minutes each, on the side, before any joint conversation. People talk straighter when the other party isn't in the room.

Solve for the behavior, not the personality

You can change behavior. You can't redesign someone's personality. Agree on what each person will do differently next week, not on who is the 'right' kind of person.

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