How do I ask for referrals without being weird?
Short answer
Right after you've delivered something they love. Plain words. Once.
When to ask
At the moment a customer is thanking you. 'Glad it turned out well. We grow mostly by word of mouth. If you know anyone who could use us, I'd love an intro.' Then stop.
Make it easy
Hand them a card. Send a text the next day with a one-line message they can forward. Don't bribe with $25 gift cards. It cheapens the trust.
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