How do I fire an employee respectfully?
Short answer
Short meeting. Plain words. Same-day exit. Treat them the way you would want a friend treated.
The meeting
Pick a private spot, early in the day, never on a Friday afternoon. Two sentences: 'Today is your last day. The role isn't working and I've made the decision.' Then stop talking and let them respond.
The exit
Have final pay ready per your state's rules. Walk through tools, keys, accounts. Offer a neutral reference for future jobs they could actually do.
Tell the rest of the team the same day in one sentence. No story, no blame. Then go back to work.
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